Singles and Getting Married: What You Should Know

Dear Singles,

There is a huge difference between the wedding and a marriage.

So many people want the wedding but are not ready for the marriage.

If you do not know and understand yourself, the wedding will look attractive to you and you will desire it.

However, you won’t be ready for the marriage as it will reveal that you don’t know what you need or know who you are. You will project your emotional trauma on your partner and you both will constantly have unresolved conflicts that will rip you apart.

Marriage is not for the faint at heart. It requires a lot of sacrifice and love.

Do not seek marriage until you know, love and understand yourself. Marriage is not something you rush into. Otherwise, you will rush out the same way in rushed to fall in love.

Read this: The Difference Between Falling in Love and Loving Someone.

Marriage is about love not falling in love and falling out. Love is for a lifetime. Falling in love is short term.

Love does not deplete, disrespect, doubt, or devalue. Love is not selfish, resentful, abusive, proud, rude, bitter or boastful.

If it is love, you will never have to lose yourself.

Please take time to know the difference between wedding and marriage. Take time to discover yourself and establish core values and relationship goals as you become healthy. Otherwise, you will settle for the wedding and never be married.

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