08 Jan
How to Improve Your Self-Esteem
- By Kemi Sogunle
- In Blog, Life, Relationship, Single Life
Your self-esteem is a reflection of how you feel about who you are. Your self-esteem can be damaged as a child if you happen to grow up in an unhealthy environment/family dynamic.
You can improve your self-esteem and change your perception about yourself at any point in your life's journey.
Having a low self-esteem can affect your career, decision-making and relationships.
Here are 8 things you can do to improve your self-esteem:
- Evaluate your negative beliefs. Understand that your negative beliefs are not a reflection of your true self. Eliminate each one as you evaluate and replace it with a positive thought.
- Eliminate self-criticism. Don't be too hard on yourself and learn to give yourself a break. Whenever you want to self-criticize, ask yourself why and write down what comes up in your mind. Evaluate your answer and sit with it to make it meaningful.
- Create a list of qualities you currently have. Write down what each quality represents in your life uniquely.
- Build positive relationships that support your growth and life’s journey. Surround yourself with people who can help you develop and grow in life and vice versa.
- Establish healthy boundaries. Learn to say ‘no’ without people pleasing.
- Work on improving your physical health. Your physical health can help increase your mental health.
- Take on challenging tasks that help you discover your inner strengths.
- Take baby steps and never give up. Don't rush the process or give up easily. Strive and push yourself harder to learn while unlearning old habits and patterns.
You can join the Purposeful Relationship Inner Circle to learn more on this.
Always, remember:
"What you feed your mind, leads your life." - excerpt, from my book, "On Becoming Restored. Copyright ©2014, Kemi Sogunle. All Rights Reserved.
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Kemi Sogunle is a certified life and relationship coach for single men and women as well as married couples. She is also a certified Neuro-Linguistic Programming Practitioner (NLP). Kemi Sogunle specializes in helping singles navigate the murky waters of life and relationship to overcome heartbreaks, regain their confidence and self-esteem after ending an unhealthy relationship (including divorce). This makes it easy for you to embark on the journey of self-discovery and self-love in order to become the best version of yourself and find love again. Kemi Sogunle works with singles and couples who are ready to own the truth and become committed to living authentically. Books Published:
• Love, Sex, Lies and Reality
• Being Single: A State for the Fragile Heart
• Beyond the Pain (A Return to Love)
• On Becoming Restored
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