5 Reasons Why We Repeat Patterns

Have you found yourself repeating patterns or wondering why you keep attracting the same type of partners? Here are five reasons you should take note of to prevent yourself from continuing to repeat patterns:

1. Lack of healing

Not healing after a broken relationship or divorce will lead to you repeating patterns and cycles.

2. Not learning the lessons

The end of every relationship teaches you a lot of lessons that will prevent you from repeating patterns.

"Without learning the lessons, you will keep repeating the same patterns and cycles." - Kemi Sogunle

3. Seeking advice from people who have not yet healed

These people will only advice you based on where they are with themselves not where you necessarily need to be with yourself.

4. Lack of vision and life and relationship goals

Set a vision and have goals that you will accomplish in your life and relationship. These goals will help you evaluate the potential partners you meet.

5. Not loving yourself enough

If you don't love yourself enough, you will not be able to speak the truth to yourself or be patient with yourself. This will result in you rushing and making wrong choices that allow you face consequences that leave you in pain.

“If you don't love yourself, you won't be happy with yourself. If you can't love yourself, you can't love anyone else. You can't give the love you do not have. You can't make anyone love you without loving yourself first.”- Kemi Sogunle, Excerpt, "Beyond the Pain." Copyright ©2014. All Rights Reserved

Read this: Four Signs You Are Self Sabotaging

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