Why You Need to Understand a Player

Finding a partner is great but getting played on, often brings pain with it. Understanding the thought process and life of a player is essential to guarding your heart. Protecting yourself and identifying your relationship requirements are vital to getting into a healthy relationship and not settlign for a player who will waste your time.

In this video I share about how to understand where a player is and how to assist the player from getting unstuck.

Things you should do:

Learn to understand the problems the player is going through.
Be emphatic not sympathetic.
Hold a conversation with the player in a tone that is not judgemental.
Offer solutions to the player or help him/her get support from a professional.

"Do not play along with a player if you do not want to get played on. Do not give in and get hurt. Do not settle for less...learn to wait for the best!" - Kemi Sogunle

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