How Your Choices Affect Your Life and Relationship

We have to opportunity to make choices that can lead to a shift and eventually changes the trajectory of our lives. However, if we do not become aware that our choices (made subconsciously or unconsciously) result in the consequences we face, we will blame others continuously and not own our responsibility.

Deciding to heal from the pain is a choice. Freedom for the hurt is a choice. Forgiving oneself is a choice. Loving oneself is a choice. Remaining bitter is a choice one makes.

“The choices we make, determine the consequences we face.” – Kemi Sogunle

It is up to us as individuals, to accept the truth, own the choice and decide to move beyond it while learning the lessons from that experience. What choices are you making? Are you choosing to settle? Are you choosing to grow? Are you choosing to hurt or are you choosing to heal?

No one can make the choices for you and no one can change your life but you. Poor choices become reality and can limit one’s perspective.

You have to learn to “Think before you act and reason before you react.” – Kemi Sogunle

What you choose becomes a habit and what becomes a habit, becomes a lifestyle.

“Your choices become your reality…choose wisely!” – Kemi Sogunle

Copyright ©2014. Kemi Sogunle. All Rights Reserved. Excerpt, "Beyond the Pain."

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