3 Reasons Why You Experience a Break-Up
No one wants a relationship to end but without understanding why, you will keep hoping from one relationship to another. To ensure you do not keep repeating patterns, here three reasons why your relationship may not last:
You are Lonely
Loneliness makes you settle and give in to any potential partner that shows up in that moment. You have a longing to be in someone’s arms and you want to be loved. You do not want to take the time to wait any longer and believe you can make it work.Reality is that loneliness will awaken your emotions and cloud your judgement, leading you to believe empty words without actions...giving in to get hurt!
There is a Void in Your Life
You have a void in your life that you believe having a partner will fill. Your partner may not see things the way you see them so you try to force them to do what you want them to do. The truth is that no one can fill that void but you…that longing for growth…to emerge into a higher level of self. Focus on filling the void and make the shift where necessary.
You Are Not Ready
You do not feel complete and have not meet your own needs. You do not have a vision or set goals for your life but you believe your partner can make you feel complete and meet your needs. The very things you are looking for in a partner, are the very things you need to work on by yourself (excerpt from my book, “Being Single: A State for the Fragile Heart.”). Ensure you feel complete and whole...become ready to be the partner to be found.
Not sure what it takes to be ready? Join the 12-weeks Purposeful Relationship Mastery Program. Learn how to create a vision for your life and relationship, stop self-sabotage and find the love you truly deserve. To learn more, email coaching@kemisogunle[dot]com.
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