Life is not about what we do for ourselves but for God and others. We must learn to see possibilities in impossible situation.
You have to be ready to do the work to find the partner you deserve and who also deserves to be in your life.
Holding on to painful memories only lead to bitterness, strife, malice and anger that only hold us back from moving forward. This only makes us toxic, as all we can give to anyone around us, is the pain we have and not love.