Quotes

"I have learned over the years that a woman's sexiness is not about how she looks, what she wears or what others have to say about her. It is found in how much she loves and sees herself from within...how much she truly believes in herself. As a woman, you must wear it every day, live it out loud and let it serve as a reminder that you are beautiful and your "Sexy Starts with Self-Love®." - Kemi Sogunle

“At the end of the day, what matters most is not what tore you apart but the love than binds and heals your heart.” - Kemi Sogunle, Excerpt, "Being Single" ©2015 Kemi Sogunle. All Rights Reserved.

“Without making mistakes, there won't be lessons learned. Without getting hurt, there won't be knowledge gained. The only way we grow is by learning from the past. Always be willing to learn and grow daily. It's how we come to know who we are and what we are made of.” - Kemi Sogunle, Excerpt, "Being Single" Copyright 2015 © Kemi Sogunle. All Rights Reserved.

“Different plants thrive together in a well nurtured garden. Just as they thrive, they pass on a message to mankind - God created us all to thrive with one another and planted love in our hearts for this reason. Let's learn to embrace each other, knowing Love is all we have to keep us growing and going.” - Kemi Sogunle Excerpt, "Being Single." Copyright 2014 © Kemi Sogunle. All Rights Reserved.

“Always see the good in everyone...learn to see through God's eyes no matter what...remember, the tables may turn tomorrow. You just never know!” - Kemi Sogunle, Excerpt, "Beyond the Pain." ©2014 Kemi Sogunle. All Rights Reserved.

“If you don't love yourself, you won't be happy with yourself. If you can't love yourself, you can't love anyone else. You can't give the love you do not have. You can't make anyone love you without loving yourself first.” - Kemi Sogunle Excerpt, "Beyond the Pain" Copyright 2014 © Kemi Sogunle. All Rights Reserved.

“Until you are willing to learn the lessons, pay attention to details, and become patient with yourself, you will keep repeating the same patterns over and over again.” - Kemi Sogunle, Excerpt, "Beyond the Pain." Copyright 2014 © Kemi Sogunle. All Rights Reserved.

“Every time you mistreat someone, you reveal the part of you that lacks love and needs to heal.” - Kemi Sogunle Excerpt, "Beyond the Pain." Copyright 2014 © Kemi Sogunle. All Rights Reserved.

"Your level of ignorance is based on what you believe you know and your ego." - Kemi Sogunle Copyright 2014 © Kemi Sogunle. All Rights Reserved.

“Never shut off pain till it eats you up completely. Ensure you find someone you can confide in and trust, share your burdens, cry if you need to by letting it all out. No one is conditioned for pain. We all need to address it and let it go, knowing we cannot change the past but we can make a brighter future out of the lessons learned.” - Excerpt, "Love, Sex, Lies and Reality" - Kemi Sogunle Copyright 2014 © Kemi Sogunle. All Rights Reserved.

“Without failing at one thing, there won't be an opportunity to try again, learn and grow. Life isn't static but dynamic. Learn to embrace whatever situation you may face and strive to overcome. Believe in yourself, knowing your best is yet to come.” - Kemi Sogunle, Excerpt, "Being Single" Copyright 2014 © Kemi Sogunle. All Rights Reserved.

“You can't move beyond your past if you keep talking about it like it's your present.” - Kemi Sogunle, "Beyond the Pain" Copyright 2014 © Kemi Sogunle. All Rights Reserved.

“The pain you endure today will lead to a better tomorrow. Don't dwell so much on the pain but focus on the lessons learned. There in lies your strength to rise above all odds. Your best is yet to come.” - Kemi Sogunle Copyright 2014 © Kemi Sogunle. All Rights Reserved.

“The most painful moments and memories eventually lead to the greatest strengths and growth in life.” - Kemi Sogunle, Excerpt, "Beyond the Pain." Copyright 2014 © Kemi Sogunle. All Rights Reserved.

“Pain and love cannot be in the same space. You can never love anyone in pain. You cannot truly love yourself in pain. The more pain you carry in your heart, the harder it becomes to love anyone including yourself.” - Kemi Sogunle Excerpt, "Beyond the Pain." Copyright 2014 © Kemi Sogunle. All Rights Reserved.

“Without forgiveness and love, you will live with resentment, bitterness, malice and strife which result in more pain. You can never love without forgiving. Forgiveness deepens your ability to love and frees you from pain.” - Kemi Sogunle Excerpt, "Beyond the Pain." Copyright 2014 © Kemi Sogunle. All Rights Reserved.

"Silence is the greatest form of self-abuse when you choose not to talk about or heal from painful experiences." -expert from my book, "On Becoming Restored." Copyright 2014 © Kemi Sogunle. All Rights Reserved.